Friday, July 22, 2016

Introduction


Tinder, Ok Cupid, Zoosk, Match.com, Elite Singles, Christian Mingle, Plenty of Fish, Bumble, EHarmony, JDate... yes JDate.

I at one point, in the last 10? years have had (or have) a profile active on one of these dating sites. 

After a long term relationship in my early 20s.... a series of relationships that were friendships with benefits, intimacy without commitment, and questionable choices in my later 20s / early 30s.

Then falling in love,  having my heart broken, falling into patterns of weak personal boundaries, and unhealthy self-respect, here I am again healthy, happy and peaceful, attempting to find those sparks, those butterflies and that ultimate connection.

After therapy, self-exploration, communication skills practice, I finally know my who self, recognize and honor my inner glow and can't wait to find somebody that I'm excited about and wants ALL of me back.